How to build rapport:

1. Smile.
2. Listen.

Smiling is one of the simplest ways to get kids on your side. I've noticed that it is particularly effective with Primary or ESL students. I think it works for Primary students because it makes them feel safe. I think it works for ESL children because they have such limited communication capabilities, that you really need to express with your body language, that you like and accept them and that they're safe.

Listening is also very important. You know all of those random stories kids tell that don't really go anywhere but they feel the need to tell them anyway? Listen to those stories. Ask them about their lives. Solicit their opinions. Seek understanding of their interests. I know listening takes time (sometimes even learning time) but if you include some moderate listening in your everyday teacher life, it will most definitely pay off.

Lesson Learned. Primary division.